Dagger: the little extras to adopt

Do you remember the woman who made you feel like no one else could have done before? This kind of energy, excitement and sensual tension that you wanted to make last forever. This woman has been in your memory for years. Today, you regret not having addressed it.

And if you meet her again now or in a few hours, will you know what to say to her? Are you sure you could approach it in the right way? What you don’t know is that every year new dredging techniques surface.( dagger).

If for you, 2020 is to be a year where success in seduction is at the rendezvous, you need to update all the techniques and little tricks you use to address. While change can scare you, it’s often beneficial. Before you take the plunge, you need to know the new tricks of flirting, to try the next time you someone catches your attention.

Waiting for others to approach you may seem like the best option to never have a rake, but think about all the appointments you miss when doing this.

1- Don’t beg for his affection

Are you looking to dredge effectively? One of the biggest mistakes that apprentice dredgers make is to wait (or search) for the validation of the lady before embarking. My dear readers, for this new year, let me put you back on the right path: avoid openly expressing gestures or saying words to try to please him.  Dragging is not begging for affection. However, by explicitly communicating that you are trying to please him, you are sending him signs that he will not like. Believe me, women automatically run away from men who show, from the beginning of the seduction phase, that you need his affection.

Don’t put her on a pedestal

What do women expect of you? Simply that you have the ability to show her what you are able to bring to her life and not what you want to take in hers. In this way, you prove to him that you are a stable, accomplished, mature man who has already found a good emotional balance. Remember that you are the man with whom she must project herself into the future and not a person who seeks first and foremost her approval to get a promotion, for example. So, for starters, avoid licking her boots and don’t put her on a pedestal. Even if you feel like she’s the kind of unattainable woman, always keep in mind that you have the same value as her. Neither you nor it is superior to the other.

2- Be smiling!

We like to say that we should not rely on the first impression we have of a person. And yet, there are a few little “pluses” that will make a big difference when you first contact the woman you want to seduce. For example, it’s a good bet to always sketch your biggest smile. You are about to approach a stranger, do you really think that having a funeral head will allow you to seduce her? Whether she’s with friends, alone, or in the crowd, always smile. And this rule is also applicable in all places where you want to dredge.

Smile and be automatically appreciated

By smiling at everyone who crosses your path, you make them understand that you are a positive person. You already announce the color of everything that awaits them if they have you in their circle of friends. Conversely, if you show them a constantly angry and nervous face, you make them understand that you are a negative person and therefore brings negativity into the lives of all those around you. With a simple smile, you can already communicate the right message to the woman you want to approach. The line of your face, smiling and happy, will make her understand from the first second that you are a man of good intentions.

When to smile?

It is still important that you fit in a little bit on this. Just because I tell you to be smiling doesn’t mean you’re going to be smiling all the time. Because of that, she might think you’re a lunatic or a psychopath. Just sketch a smile during the first few seconds of conversation or when your eyes only cross. When the conversation is in full swing, let go of a smile to adopt your easy everyday expression. Little by little, you will automatically know that it is time to smile or not.

3- Don’t fear his eyes

That’s the kind of advice a maintenance expert will give you. But know that in seduction, it also makes sense. To effectively communicate your thoughts and emotions to your interlocutor, you should not be afraid to look it in the eye when you speak. I know a lot of men who missed the first test simply because they did everything they could to escape a look. You do not understand that for us women, the look can say a lot about your personality, your expectation and your feelings.

The power of the gaze

Looking at the woman you like in the eye when you talk to her is not just a drag technique that works in 2018. It is also, and above all, a way to restore your self-confidence, to show them that you are a strong person and that you are really trying to have a connection with them.  On the other hand, when you look away while talking to her, she will feel that you don’t really believe in what you’re saying. The most honest men are those who do not have the elusive gaze, even in the most serious discussions.

4- Don’t go four ways

The Frien-dzone is not a myth. Besides, I suppose you’ve been through this irritating situation or you want to go further with a girl, but after a few weeks she pulls out a: “I love you like a friend” or “I prefer that we remain friends”.  You know, women don’t always intentionally put you in the friends box. Maybe it’s because you didn’t send him the right signals. Perhaps deep down, she also wanted a romantic relationship, but your words and actions did not push her to go any further. Which is a shame. The good news is that in 2018, you can avoid this kind of inconvenience very easily. But how? Simply by quickly making the woman you like understand that something is going on between you.

How do I do that?

You can choose from several techniques. These can be small sentences of direct approach or well-chosen compliments. It can also look small and gestures evocative. The goal is to find a way for the woman to consider more than friendship with you. Assume your feelings and intentions. From that moment on, she will know that if she wants to go further with you it is not on the path of friendship. She should consider you a potential lover and not a brother or friend. Be enterprising.

5- Take control

Drag is like dancing. As a man, you have to take the steps. Or in this context, take control of the situation. For women, men who have the ability to lead things, taking the reins are extremely attractive. And if you want to hit on a shy girl, that character trait would be even more important. Contrary to what one might think, men who do not allow themselves to be drowned by the situation appeal to women. With this guy, they can be sure to be able to give in in complete serenity. Not all men have the ability to lead, so you will earn even more points by having that “power.”

Lead the movement

But how do you make him understand that you’re leading the movement? It is not as difficult as you think, because you can make it clear to them by simple gestures and simple words. Whether it’s at the time of the meeting or during your exchanges, the perfect time to get started can be anytime. The best way to do this is to be the one who pushes your partner to the next stages of the relationship. Be the one who offers an appointment, be the one who asks for the phone number first, be the one who has already programmed the day from A to Z to surprise her, be the one who does not hesitate. Anyway, be the leader.

6- Play with humor

If you follow us assiduously, you know that the women who laugh are the women who are already half conquered. Therefore, when you succeed in making a woman laugh, you increase your chances of seducing her. But be careful all the same, because there is a great nuance between women who laughs with you and woman who laughs at you. To avoid falling into the second category, you need to choose the right form of humor. Don’t try to overdo it, but don’t also be tempted not to do enough.

Find the right balance of humor

So my advice is to opt for a balanced humor and not to force anything. If you overdo it and look for a way to make him laugh at all costs, you risk looking like a weird man or a heavy man. Humor must be done naturally and laughter will follow automatically.

7- Talk to your body

Verbal communication is a pillar of seduction, but it is not enough. You should also let your body language communicate your feelings and feelings. The way you stand, the way you move your body, the easy expression you wear at a particular moment… so many things that can say a lot about what you have to say to him. The game of seduction is not only a story of word, it is also a story of gesture. No matter what words you say, if you say it with a trembling or curling up on yourself, you will never make her understand that you are interested in her.

The secret: being Zen

I understand that you are panicked and that you simply do not have the strength to remain quiet, but if you want good results, you will have to draw zennitude from you. You have to show yourself on your best day. Just with the tone of your voice, she must understand that you are sure of what you are doing and that you are not afraid to talk to a woman.